Dear Mike and fellow Buckians
What a wonderful paradox Dr Srikumar assertion "Positive Thinking is Bad for You!!" Ha ha
The other day I was at a seminar, and the trainer said, "don't mix with people who are always negative.....you'll become negative" I replied him that's that may not be necessary true. I know of some friends who are negative, always blaming and complaining, ....I realized that being with this kind of people can also make me feel how fortunate I am, I become more positive. Complementarity!!
May I share the following, extract from Buckminster Fuller's book Critical Path
".....the words good and bad are meaningless. This is based on science and not an opinion. In 1922 physicists discovered a fundamental complementarity of disparate individual phenomenon to be operative in physical Universe. This was fundamentally amplified with the subsequent discovery of the always-and-only-different, always-co-existing proton and neutron which, with their always-coexistent electrons, positrons, neutrinos, and antineutrinos, are eternally intertransformable.
No longer was valid the "building block" of the Universe. It was discovered that unity was plural and at minimum sixfold. All the intercomplementations are essential to the successful accomplishment of eternally regenerative Universe. Science's discovery of fundamental complementarity has frequently occasioned individual scientist's realization that the word negative used as the opposite of the word positive is at best carelessly and misinformedly employed.
Since complementarity is essential to the success of eternally regenerative Universe, the phenomenon identified as the opposite of positive cannot be negative, nor can it be bad, since the interopposed phenomena known heretofore as good and bad are essential to the 100-percent success of eternally regenerative Universe. They are both GOOD for the Universe.
Science recognizes many fundamentally complementary aspects of Universe. The black hole is not a negative. As implosion is to explosion, the black hole phenomenon is to the inside-out, expanding Universe. The black hole is the inverse phase -- the outside-inning phase -- of cosmic evolution. What humans have identified as good and bad -- or as positive and negative -- are evolutionary complementations in need of more accurate identifications."
Good luck or Bad luck?
There is a Chinese story of a farmer who used an old horse to till his fields. One day, the horse escaped into the hills and when the farmer's neighbors sympathized with the old man over his bad luck, the farmer replied, "Bad luck? Good luck? Who knows?" A week later, the horse returned with a herd of horses from the hills and this time the neighbors congratulated the farmer on his good luck. His reply was, "Good luck? Bad luck? Who knows?"
Then, when the farmer's son was attempting to tame one of the wild horses, he fell off its back and broke his leg. Everyone thought this very bad luck. Not the farmer, whose only reaction was, "Bad luck? Good luck? Who knows?"
Some weeks later, the army marched into the village and conscripted every able-bodied youth they found there. When they saw the farmer's son with his broken leg, they let him off. Now was that good luck or bad luck?
Who knows?
Everything that seems on the surface to be an evil may be a good in disguise. And everything that seems good on the surface may really be an evil. So we are wise when we leave it to God to decide what is good fortune and what misfortune, and thank him that all things turn out for good with those who love him.
Or actually All is GOOD?
Buckyfully yours
JooHock
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
懒人游记---刁曼岛(三天两夜)
旅游最重要是开心,若一个人出门不开心,可以怪天气,怪交通,怪宿食.但整班人出门一起玩,可以创造乐趣,人多好辨事,若再不开心,那就真是活该了.
一行人分五辆车,从出发就遇上雨天,但风雨无阻.到了刁曼岛,迎接我们的则是那微微细雨,碰上这样的雨天,诗情画意有鬼用...........但我们是来玩的.全岛最大声的,当然非海洋之家莫属 .
60尺的大飞艇,行李有专属位置,专人提放,你一直望着它,那它就没事!切记,切记!!!!
第一顿午餐就享受到了刁曼岛的马来式华人炒饭,外加炒大面,都怪我平时太厉害煮,老婆孩子就嫌弃说没有什么料!...不过住宿处就没得嫌.有公用大餐桌,热水茶点全天免费供应,还有个大果园,有水蓊(有虫),芒果(不熟),椰子(椰树太高).果园内有猴子,鸡,猫,四脚蛇....这里的四脚蛇是岛上专用清道夫,
阳光,沙滩,海,全都不收费,任玩.在这里,小孩是最开心的,妈妈追不到,全身湿透是应该的,挖沙掘泥也没关系,看看三点式鬼婆也可以,哗!回去才红眼.管他娘的,但确记带个潜水眼镜
,浅滩里也有珊瑚礁,也有点鱼,虽然小,但色彩依旧鲜艳,...这次有四人是到刁曼岛学潜水,另有两人则己是潜水好手,一行六人,他们的阳光,海水及船费须另付,但他们所接触到的,却是我们这群没去潜水的人没法享受到的感觉,安安静静,美丽,又令人惊叹.....一大群或三两只妖艳又壮观的鱼儿在身边游来游去,....它们不会叫你给家用,不会嫌你游太快,不会叫你转左转右,不会张口大叫要你停止,它们张开口,不是要吃你,只是要呼吸罢了,没有声音......天下太平.
傍晚则在一中餐馆内开伙,游了泳,潜了水的,全都似饿鬼似的,茶水不算,二十一只鬼就吃了近六十个人的饭,....当然,我个人就吃了四碗,hihihihihi..
夜里大家喝茶聊天,不亦乐乎.小瓜个个都圉着那电视,有ASTRO,有人挑灯夜读,说是为那潜水课程的考试,...哗!吃到酱老,,,,还考....
这里夜市有如一个小型巴刹,吃的,喝的,用的都齐,SK2都有,不过己卖完而又不进货,各位看官记得要带多点钱来,这里的酒免税,三罐十个大元.
第一天半夜下了场倾盆大雨,因而迎来了第二天全天清新的感觉,延续之前的喜乐,廉正的我们相信只要有爱,及对大自然的一份关爱,决不破坏这自然海域的美观与环境的勇气,当然
,我们也宽恕那些破坏者....哗!
五大精髓都用上了.......
第三天,天气是越来越好,风清气爽,吃了早餐,悠悠然地上了船,回头一望,刁曼岛温柔地告诉我,....
我等着你回来
我等着你回来
你不要不回来
你不要不回来
等你回来 陪我开怀
一行人分五辆车,从出发就遇上雨天,但风雨无阻.到了刁曼岛,迎接我们的则是那微微细雨,碰上这样的雨天,诗情画意有鬼用...........但我们是来玩的.全岛最大声的,当然非海洋之家莫属 .
60尺的大飞艇,行李有专属位置,专人提放,你一直望着它,那它就没事!切记,切记!!!!
第一顿午餐就享受到了刁曼岛的马来式华人炒饭,外加炒大面,都怪我平时太厉害煮,老婆孩子就嫌弃说没有什么料!...不过住宿处就没得嫌.有公用大餐桌,热水茶点全天免费供应,还有个大果园,有水蓊(有虫),芒果(不熟),椰子(椰树太高).果园内有猴子,鸡,猫,四脚蛇....这里的四脚蛇是岛上专用清道夫,
阳光,沙滩,海,全都不收费,任玩.在这里,小孩是最开心的,妈妈追不到,全身湿透是应该的,挖沙掘泥也没关系,看看三点式鬼婆也可以,哗!回去才红眼.管他娘的,但确记带个潜水眼镜
,浅滩里也有珊瑚礁,也有点鱼,虽然小,但色彩依旧鲜艳,...这次有四人是到刁曼岛学潜水,另有两人则己是潜水好手,一行六人,他们的阳光,海水及船费须另付,但他们所接触到的,却是我们这群没去潜水的人没法享受到的感觉,安安静静,美丽,又令人惊叹.....一大群或三两只妖艳又壮观的鱼儿在身边游来游去,....它们不会叫你给家用,不会嫌你游太快,不会叫你转左转右,不会张口大叫要你停止,它们张开口,不是要吃你,只是要呼吸罢了,没有声音......天下太平.
傍晚则在一中餐馆内开伙,游了泳,潜了水的,全都似饿鬼似的,茶水不算,二十一只鬼就吃了近六十个人的饭,....当然,我个人就吃了四碗,hihihihihi..
夜里大家喝茶聊天,不亦乐乎.小瓜个个都圉着那电视,有ASTRO,有人挑灯夜读,说是为那潜水课程的考试,...哗!吃到酱老,,,,还考....
这里夜市有如一个小型巴刹,吃的,喝的,用的都齐,SK2都有,不过己卖完而又不进货,各位看官记得要带多点钱来,这里的酒免税,三罐十个大元.
第一天半夜下了场倾盆大雨,因而迎来了第二天全天清新的感觉,延续之前的喜乐,廉正的我们相信只要有爱,及对大自然的一份关爱,决不破坏这自然海域的美观与环境的勇气,当然
,我们也宽恕那些破坏者....哗!
五大精髓都用上了.......
第三天,天气是越来越好,风清气爽,吃了早餐,悠悠然地上了船,回头一望,刁曼岛温柔地告诉我,....
我等着你回来
我等着你回来
你不要不回来
你不要不回来
等你回来 陪我开怀
Monday, March 22, 2010
一三现金流 3-3-2010
有人喜欢写,天天写,写的天花乱坠.
有人喜欢写,写不出,只因为懒,不动笔写,什么鳥都写不出,即写不出.当然,我们什么鳥都看不到.
我是后者,但这次被几个比我更懒的人逼我,威胁利诱.....那你们就看看我写些什么鳥吧!
每个人各有所忙,日理万机,说真的,能抽出时间出席今天这场一三聚会,真该说声〝幸会〞
今夭的一三聚会主题是叫大家来玩,玩什么------现金流遊戏
现金流遊戏是什么?是个让大家暸解金錢流向,说明你的錢怎么来?去了哪?怎么用?如何转?转去哪?变什么?你会在理財的同时,会遭遇到的事,让大家渗透,領略出其中精髓,RICKY LIM讲的,我个人一奌都不懂,他们叫我写,我不就照抄
咯!
现场概况:RICKY说明了游戏規則,玩法,其中须尊守的细节,各人仔细呤听,但却不明白什么来的,不以为然,心想待会问 Banker就行了..吵吵鬧鬧似巴刹般的开始了.
有人似理财专家般小心翼翼,步步为营,另有人像暴发户似地,大手筆出击,更有人
跟高利貸一样,收取高额利息,令人缺步. 有人一帆风顺,有人步履艱難.
那些什么非工资收入?,什么来的,?为什么不曾出现过?..利息,股息不曾看过?,也没分到....房地产和
企业现金流是什么鬼来的.....
绕了几圈才发现,是Banker不对,笨死了也坏死了,十五万算十五千,利息,股息不给我们,有时連薪 金也不给..房地产及企业投资则一直跟我们收利息,还強迫我们做慈善,孩子一直生,生日快乐歌则一呼百应,破产后就叫我们 当褲子.唉!....老鼠跑道一直跑,快車道在哪不知道?嗚呼哀哉,至老死都不知道....想想真恐怖,死了都不知怎么死!!!!
幸好只是游戏,不然,谁敢玩?
虽然诸多埋怨,又一直怪Banker笨,但想了想,回家后该做什么,自已心知肚明,还期待着下一次该怎么玩,不然,下重本买一 套现金流遊戏回家玩个够,一家几口一起玩,我做Banker,专收利息,吃股息,不发工资,逼他们做慈善,当然,孩子一直叫他们生 ,..最终目的还是那几条褲子非得強迫他们脱下来...
做什么?当然是拿去洗啦!!!!
林偉贤老师曾说过,money & you的精髓,生活似游戏,从游戏中来体会.最出能让人醒覚.愿大家共勉之 M&Y Lim boon chun (jjlimbc@gmail.com)
有人喜欢写,写不出,只因为懒,不动笔写,什么鳥都写不出,即写不出.当然,我们什么鳥都看不到.
我是后者,但这次被几个比我更懒的人逼我,威胁利诱.....那你们就看看我写些什么鳥吧!
每个人各有所忙,日理万机,说真的,能抽出时间出席今天这场一三聚会,真该说声〝幸会〞
今夭的一三聚会主题是叫大家来玩,玩什么------现金流遊戏
现金流遊戏是什么?是个让大家暸解金錢流向,说明你的錢怎么来?去了哪?怎么用?如何转?转去哪?变什么?你会在理財的同时,会遭遇到的事,让大家渗透,領略出其中精髓,RICKY LIM讲的,我个人一奌都不懂,他们叫我写,我不就照抄
咯!
现场概况:RICKY说明了游戏規則,玩法,其中须尊守的细节,各人仔细呤听,但却不明白什么来的,不以为然,心想待会问 Banker就行了..吵吵鬧鬧似巴刹般的开始了.
有人似理财专家般小心翼翼,步步为营,另有人像暴发户似地,大手筆出击,更有人
跟高利貸一样,收取高额利息,令人缺步. 有人一帆风顺,有人步履艱難.
那些什么非工资收入?,什么来的,?为什么不曾出现过?..利息,股息不曾看过?,也没分到....房地产和
企业现金流是什么鬼来的.....
绕了几圈才发现,是Banker不对,笨死了也坏死了,十五万算十五千,利息,股息不给我们,有时連薪 金也不给..房地产及企业投资则一直跟我们收利息,还強迫我们做慈善,孩子一直生,生日快乐歌则一呼百应,破产后就叫我们 当褲子.唉!....老鼠跑道一直跑,快車道在哪不知道?嗚呼哀哉,至老死都不知道....想想真恐怖,死了都不知怎么死!!!!
幸好只是游戏,不然,谁敢玩?
虽然诸多埋怨,又一直怪Banker笨,但想了想,回家后该做什么,自已心知肚明,还期待着下一次该怎么玩,不然,下重本买一 套现金流遊戏回家玩个够,一家几口一起玩,我做Banker,专收利息,吃股息,不发工资,逼他们做慈善,当然,孩子一直叫他们生 ,..最终目的还是那几条褲子非得強迫他们脱下来...
做什么?当然是拿去洗啦!!!!
林偉贤老师曾说过,money & you的精髓,生活似游戏,从游戏中来体会.最出能让人醒覚.愿大家共勉之 M&Y Lim boon chun (jjlimbc@gmail.com)
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
Monday, March 15, 2010
24/2/2010 三三聚会报告
24/2/2010 三三聚会报告
出席家人:38 位
地点 :实践家二楼
时间 :8.00pm - 10.30pm
亲爱的money&you 家人,
一年一度的农历新年在一片欢庆声中落幕,在此祝大家在2010年里身体健康、心想事成、步步高升、生意兴隆、虎虎生威!!
由于当晚是新年联欢晚会,各位家人带来了好多美食,有麻坡著名的乌达、清甜的水果、罗惹及各式的年饼和饮料。大家都吃的津津有味。
Jimmy和惠晶还特地为我们大家安排2个精彩好玩的记忆游戏,把当晚的气氛推向高峰。让男女老幼都乐开怀!
除此之外,林老师还特地从远方带来温馨的叮咛和祝福。
希望接下来三月的三三聚会(17/3/2010 @ 7.30pm ) 将有更多的家人出席,回来新山五福城实践家二楼交流!再见
秘书,
庄衿莲
出席家人:38 位
地点 :实践家二楼
时间 :8.00pm - 10.30pm
亲爱的money&you 家人,
一年一度的农历新年在一片欢庆声中落幕,在此祝大家在2010年里身体健康、心想事成、步步高升、生意兴隆、虎虎生威!!
由于当晚是新年联欢晚会,各位家人带来了好多美食,有麻坡著名的乌达、清甜的水果、罗惹及各式的年饼和饮料。大家都吃的津津有味。
Jimmy和惠晶还特地为我们大家安排2个精彩好玩的记忆游戏,把当晚的气氛推向高峰。让男女老幼都乐开怀!
除此之外,林老师还特地从远方带来温馨的叮咛和祝福。
希望接下来三月的三三聚会(17/3/2010 @ 7.30pm ) 将有更多的家人出席,回来新山五福城实践家二楼交流!再见
秘书,
庄衿莲
Monday, March 1, 2010
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